Relationship Talks: Subliminal Spousal Bibliotherapy.

Article title:  Subliminal Spousal Bibliotherapy - written by CARNOT 

Category : Relationship Issues

 

Target Audiance: Married Couples (and those about to)

In any intimate relationship, a man's greatest homework is to know the difference between what the woman wants, what the woman needs and what she will say she wants.

We (men) would always like to hear from the women:

1• What they want

2• What they need

then we compare that to what they say they want.

My study shows that a woman who writes these things down and lets her man read, finds it easy to get her man fulfil her wishes. As a result, she become happy as the man works with guidance from the woman's written stuff, to satisfy the woman, and ultimate goal of happiness is achieved in relationships  and marriages.

 This method, I present to you. I call it,  subliminal spousal bibliotherapy.  

What Is Bibliotherapy?

When dealing with conditions such as anxiety and depression or coping with grief, sometimes it can be difficult to make sense of what is happening in your mind and body, especially if you don’t have any other experience to compare it to. Bibliotherapy aims to bridge this gap by using literature to help you improve your life by providing information, support, and guidance in the form of reading books and stories....and in this case, lets put the woman's diary in the hands on the man. The man becomes the therapist who reads all about the woman and finds his way to the key to making her happy. The woman just writes whatever she wants the man to read. And you know diaries contain extremely sensitive stuff right. So yeah....its like a lady is telling a man things that are not supposed to be told - like sharing the most dangerous secrets. 

The trouble at hand is....not many women are willing to let their men know who the inner woman is..coz, well, in most cases, the women fear that they will be left naked after telling the man everything.  Such is a heavy insecurity that remains a deep, sealed grave in some, if not many or most relationships. And the another BIG  arrow points at some men's inability to protect secrets.  Thats a major trigger  for the insecurity we speak of. In fact, its a total turn off for the women. For instance, a woman shows his man how she wants him to go hard on her (in bed), then instead of the man keeping that little secret and getting practical about it, he goes on to use the information against her....probably by telling her, or someone else, that  she has a "bi*chy" or dirty mind. Like seriously dudes? How immature! What's wrong with a woman being dirty if she's loyal? For this reason the whole concept of subliminal spousal bibliotherapy is discarded by women and consudered too risky and too costly. A lady  might lose her self esteem because of an imature man who leaks infomation instead of processing it. So yeah, they would rather die with their secrets nomater how much they wish the men knew about it. 

Now then, Im talking to mature men and women. We have good news and the good news is that, y'all  ladies can ACTUALY save and even enhance your relationships/  marriages  using subliminal spousal bibliotherapy.

Just pick a diary and write stuff, tell yourself what you want, what you enjoy and what you miss.  Then leave the diary where he can find it. Make him think  you are not aware that he found your diary. Make him feel like he stole it, lol. Be subliminal. Thank me later.

- CARNOT  

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